{"id":238970,"date":"2021-12-02T00:38:33","date_gmt":"2021-12-02T09:38:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writersatlarge.com\/riff\/?p=238970"},"modified":"2021-12-02T16:30:10","modified_gmt":"2021-12-03T01:30:10","slug":"finding-the-right-balance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writersatlarge.com\/riff\/finding-the-right-balance\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding the Right Balance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.13.1&#8243; background_color=&#8221;RGBA(0,0,0,0)&#8221; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;rgba(244,224,44,0.52)&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;rgba(204,22,16,0.99)&#8221; background_color_gradient_type=&#8221;radial&#8221; background_color_gradient_direction_radial=&#8221;top left&#8221; background_color_gradient_start_position=&#8221;35%&#8221; background_color_gradient_end_position=&#8221;19%&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-15px||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.7.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.7.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.13.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;80%&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-5%|||14%|false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;4%|2%|4%|2%|true|true&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #003366;\">Admittedly, I struggle with finding the right balance between what&#8217;s important and what&#8217;s not.\u00a0 This is especially true for time spent on social media and making Facebook posts. interactions, personal and professional.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>With raging wildfires turning the Western United States into a giant furnace&#8212;why post a restaurant review?\u00a0 Seems so trivial.\u00a0 With a new variant of a global pandemic on the rise&#8212;why post pictures of a bottle of wine?\u00a0 How shallow that is. 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